Monday, March 2, 2009

i owe it to myself...

i had a chance to watch kimora lee simon's show, hehehe, not really a follower and something in there just strike me today..she was preparing a surprise party for her husband and her kids were having tantrums about little knick knacks... guess what she told the kiddos>> honey, you have to understand that it's not always about you or me, ammm no it's also about me " tadddaannnnnnnnnnn... yup i love her! and i love what she just said! A mother or a woman , must never compromise always. A husband, a boyfriend or a child must understand that their wife or mom needs a time and a luxury for herself. No matter how we wanted to give all, but we also want to take something. AND we can thrive on being women when we are pampered and taken cared of..
An occasionally selfish woman is a loving girlfriend, a loving wife and a loving mom. That i can vouch . A total selfless woman is a martyr just waiting to explode. So yah better watch out!