Friday, August 31, 2007

frienships and trusts....

how do you trust a person?
how one knows that this person can be trusted or not?
what determines really friend.. ?
what is a friend?

people are very difficult to trust with.. we all have motives.. we all have our own concerns and we have our own ambitions.. even relatives betray each other.. how much more friends....

it's my current dilemma.. i help people not because they are my friends or i like them.. I help people because they asked for my help... but some people even friends don't sustain "honor" in the advent of adversity.. they break ties, they become ungrateful, they become selfish...
i have always good view in people, i lend my hand easily... i was never deprived so i always felt the need to give back what i could lend... but i have what ifs...?

sometimes, i felt used... am i bad for feeling like that?

whatever is there, i have faith in friends,, sometimes, i don't feel the need to have one.. but i must admit life is a little less lonely with people around...real friends or pseudo ones....

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